DRAFT FOR THE CONSIDERATION OF THE GROUP CONSCIENCE
“Each Group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or Kindr as a whole.”
Kindr is a fellowship of equals. No Group governs another. Each Group is free to shape its own meetings, decide how it carries the message, and respond to the needs of its members. This Tradition affirms our collective trust in spiritual principles over rigid control. It gives each Group the dignity to discern what works best in its own corner of the recovery world.
Autonomy means freedom with responsibility. A Kindr Group may choose its format, literature, service roles, and style—but not in a vacuum. Our freedom exists within the context of the wider Fellowship. When a Group’s choices impact other Groups or the unity of Kindr as a whole, Tradition Four asks us to pause and consult. Freedom does not mean isolation; it means interdependence, grounded in care.
This Tradition protects creativity and diversity. One Group may focus on meditation; another on LGBTQ+ experience; another on outreach to newcomers. These differences reflect the richness of our community. We don’t need all Groups to look or sound the same—what we need is for each to uphold the spiritual foundations of Kindr: honesty, love, and service.
At the same time, this Tradition is a warning. A group that drifts too far from the Steps, Traditions, or spiritual principles may unintentionally harm members or confuse the message. If our actions damage Kindr’s reputation, alienate newcomers, or divide the fellowship, then our autonomy has become self-will. When in doubt, we consult the collective wisdom of Kindr and the guidance of a Higher Power.
Tradition Four teaches us how to balance independence with connection. We honour each Group’s unique expression while remembering we are all part of something larger. Our unity is not maintained by force, but by mutual respect, open communication, and shared spiritual aims.
Autonomy is a spiritual practice. It invites Groups to take responsibility, to think things through, to check motives, and to seek guidance when unsure. It reminds us that freedom is not about doing whatever we like—it’s about choosing what serves the greater good.
Key Spiritual Principles in Tradition Four:
Autonomy – Each group is free to follow its conscience and shape its own recovery experience within the Fellowship of Kindr.
Responsibility – Freedom comes with the duty to consider how our actions affect others.
Discernment – We are invited to reflect deeply before making decisions that may ripple beyond our group.
Mutual Respect – Groups honour one another’s choices and trust in each other’s spiritual integrity.
Interdependence – We are part of a larger whole, and our wellbeing is linked to that of the wider Kindr fellowship.
DRAFT FOR THE CONSIDERATION OF THE GROUP CONSCIENCE